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posted on 5-27 by dlthuglatino |
| why do gay peeps try n put presher on masc nigga?
i am wondrin why gayz alla time be trynna out dl masc niggaz an not respec dat a masc nigga dont wanna b gay.... an why gayz awayz critisize masc niggaz wit lies dat dey masclinity is som kinna front... why wud ne one thank dat if 2 niggaz mess round togetha still cant be da same masc niggaz dey waz befo dey eva start messin wit anotha nigga... to me it seem like dis som kinna reaccion by rejected gay niggaz.... nah mean? if a masc nigga dont wanna git wit a fem type kat or wit a open gay nigga... datz his choice.... but naw... gay niggaz wanna strike back an hurt dat nigga cuz he reject dem avances... nah mean? |
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| posted on 5-27 by kreth21 I agree, I feel that it has alot to do wit jealousy. They wish that they were so they will do anything to try and put down a masc nigga. Some feel that all niggaz should have their business out there. They don't wanna feel isolated. I'm not referring to all fem niggaz, jus some of them. |
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| posted on 5-27 by RisingStar03 I'm feeling what you saying and it really does all come down to respect, If you a masc dude and you really not into fem dudes, den they should respect dat, I mean they can't make you be something your not, If you got a preference then you got a preference, obviously they gettin jealous and mad cause you ain't payin no attention but that don't give dem the right to try and out you and lie and shyt on you , that's str8 wrong and asking for some something they ain't ready for, just cause two masc nikkas get down wif one another, don't mean that anyone should think less of them than before they did anything, just like if you a masc dude and you get down wif a fem dude, dat don't mean you any less of a man, as far as all nikkas putting they biz out, it's really up to dem, If you feel like you need erybody to know how it's goin down, den das you, but some ppl don't want they biz out like that and whether you agree with dem or not, you need to repect dat period, but dis just my opinion on da matter |
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| posted on 5-27 by RudeBwoy217 I think jealousy has somethin to do with it but it's more about resentment and feeling dejected. I think its the idea that some dl and masc dudes feel the need to seperate themselves from other gay men. It comes off as if we believe that we're better than they are. I relate it to how some black people don't like when other black people feel the need to claim any extra heritage outside of black. They may feel like they are being put down, or not good enough as if there is something wrong with being just "black." Feelings like that normally come from deeply hurtful bad experiences and can easily evolve into resentment. Some fem and openly gay dudes have been through hell all because either they couldn't help their more obviously gay tendencies or they were mistreated because of their choice to openly express their sexuality. So therefore some take it as a slap in the face that other "down," dl, etc... men don't want to be grouped along with them. Some openly gay and fem dudes may think that since they had to struggle(internally and externally--hate, negativity from others) with who they are, then other down, dl, gay dudes should have to experience the same. And I'm sure there is some jealousy as far as some fem and openly gay dudes go from havin to wear their sexuality on their sleave where as masc and dl don't have to do that. |
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| posted on 5-28 by calibj Hmmmm... DL folks are in a tough position. They have a secret and want it kept quiet. What do people have to do when they have a secret and then share it with someone?...be NICE to the person you shared the secret with. Or open yourself up to payback...and payback is a bitch. Now, I haven't done any scandalous shit to anyone like this...no need, beneath me...and I usually don't deal with DL folks (my integrity is compromised in doing so). But listen, if you want to stay on the DL, express that sincerely to whomever you deal with (fem/openly gay). Then, they should respect that. If you act a fool and hurt their feelings...they have power over you by having the ability to expose you to the world...if they're hearts so desire. Personally, I think DL folks should be the nicest men out there, because they have the most to lose. So, if you're DL...and have a tendency to be an asshole...you might not be on the DL much longer...gay boy. My advice, if you're DL...stick to DL people and go to DL events or just stay home and jackoff until Prince DL lands on your doorstep. Also, don't think someone is going to respect you and your wishes if they don't know or care about you. Be careful who you deal with. If you don't, you may as well buy yourself a rainbow flag and a pink triangle bumper sticker. Don't act like you're a victim if you've allowed yourself to be a victim. Gay boys won't know you're gay if you don't do gay shit. Wise up or be hella nice...all the time. BJ |
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| posted on 5-28 by RFM HUH? I read this thread through twice and I still don't know what y'all are talking about! There a more masculine gay dudes out there than there are fem ones! There are issues that you are not addressing. 1) Is it a matter of you wanting to stay D/L and being with a guy who accepts himself as a gay man? 2) Are you talking about getting with a fem guy and hoping that he does not blow your cover? Bottom line is no one really puts pressure on you . They just make request that you can accept or decline. When you don't make a decision that's where YOU create the pressure. You gotta weigh the options and then choose -- realizing that ALL options have consequences. Fear is what is driving the car here not you. |
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| posted on 6-6 by oneofakind I personally think it is wrong to put people's business out there regardless if it is about sexuality, personal business, etc. SO fem kats who do that are dead wrong, point blank. I think people dont like being rejected in general, but shyt thats part of life, learn how to deal with it |
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